to forgive without forgetting

This is a lesson I must learn

if I am to be at peace

too long have I let pain,

hurt hold, constrain me

not letting go of this

A lesson I must learn, first,

to be at peace, whole,

“The first to apologize is the bravest.

The first to forgive is the strongest.

The first to forget is the happiest.”

But maybe even more important

another, deeper lesson, to grow, to live,

to be able to forgive without forgetting

knowing the pain someone caused

yet choosing to forgive them

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new October 21, 2014

to forgive without forgetting

based on profile quote of

Archbishop Desmond Tutu

https://twitter.com/TheDesmondTutu

“Forgiving is not forgetting; it's actually remembering—

remembering and not using your right to hit back.

Mpho and Desmond Tutu for the #Forgiveness Challenge”

Forgiveness Challenge

http://forgivenesschallenge.com/

The Book of Forgiving

http://forgivenesschallenge.com/book/

by Archibishop Desmond Tutu

https://www.facebook.com/DesmondTutuOfficial

and Reverend Mpho Andrea Tutu

https://www.facebook.com/mpho.tutu

https://www.facebook.com/pages/Mpho-Andrea-Tutu/449943685134202  

and story of Corrie ten Boom about forgiving former Nazis

http://tenboom.com/en/

&

edited October 20, 2014

a lesson I must learn

http://raymondafoss.blogspot.com/2014/10/a-lesson-i-must-learn.html

edited October 20, 2014

a lesson I have not learned – v2

http://raymondafoss.blogspot.com/2014/10/a-lesson-i-have-not-learned-v2.html

October 17, 2014

a lesson I have not learned

http://raymondafoss.blogspot.com/2014/10/a-lesson-i-have-not-learned.html

https://www.facebook.com/raymond.a.foss/posts/10152543923238003

“The first to apologize is the bravest.

The first to forgive is the strongest.

The first to forget is the happiest.”

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